beberapa minggu yang lepas aku terdengar perbualan dalam satu rancangan yg bercakap mengenai “middle child syndrome”…tak ingat cerita aper but its just makes me wonder..what kind of syndrome is that?..am i having it?…coz i am a middle child born in my family…
The middle or second born child or children often have the sense of not belonging. They fight to receive attention from parents and others because they feel many times they are being ignored or dubbed off as being the same as another sibling. Being in the middle a child can feel insecure. The middle child often lacks drive and looks for direction from the first born child. Sometimes a middle child feels out of place because they are not over achievers and like to go with the flow of things.
Being a middle child would mean they are loners. They really don’t like to latch on to a person in a relationship, there fore they have trouble keeping one due to lack of interest. Not liking to take the limelight for anything, they are not over achievers and just simply work enough work to get by, and typically that goes with school as well as a career. They are however very artistic and creative. If forced to use abilities they will work well, but do not work well under pressure. They often start several projects but rarely keep focused long enough to finish a project. The best career move for a middle child would be along the lines of using their creative. Going into a writing or journalism career, and into a career that they could freely express themselves would be good. Anything that would have hours that are flexible, and projects that frequently changed would be good for a middle born child. Since relationships are not of high importance to a middle child, often times they are alone. However, the best possible match for a middle child would be a last born.
and u know what..im quite shock with the result…its me…i mean…sume yg die explain pasal anak tengah nih mmg sbijik2 kena kt aku…is that mean..im kinda have the syndrome?….huhu…never thought bout it…even never heard bout it…and now i just realize that been a middle child born was a thing that build up my character itself…
i am a loner…its been like what..3 or 4 years?…since the last time i had a girlfriend…ahaha…wut a loser….i think i should start looking for someone then…i need to fight this syndrome that got into me…..ahahaha…the best possible match for me would be a last born child…hmmm…
but i do kinda agree with the creative thing that article said about…i am in the line of creative now…my passions are truely into photography…i do love arts…i hate to work under pressure and i can work really well if i push my abilities to the limit…and journalism is also one of my choice when i graduated…because one of my dreams are to travel around the world and capture the beauty of it…and as photo-journalist, i can achieve that dreams….well said by that article…huhu…
neway, we still can change rite?..just because we are middle borns, does not mean we are suppose to be only that..we can change ourselves at anytime we want…rite?…so it does give me some thought of what i am…people do said that if u want to change urself, u need to know urself…i do sometime sense the feel not belonging…like my parents give more attention to the olders and the youngers…not me…but hey, as long as my parents love me then..i dont have problem with that…
heh…lucky me to realize bout this syndrome thing early than it suppose to be…we can be whatever we want to be….its just that we do not know how….yet!~
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